Self | Aspects of Trust | One-to-One | Social/Environment (Evaluation of environment) | Things that Build Trust |
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Do I have the right equipment/knowledge of the area?
Your friend asks you to go hiking with them on a difficult trail through the woods. You as yourself this question:
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What is communication?
Being able to express needs and wants to others
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What is yes?
Susie/Hoku tell you that you are going to miss out on the next COED because of your behavior the past week.
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What is the risk you're taking?
Your family smokes and you have had a history of smoking you decide to hang out with your family while they are smoking.
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What are choices?
Personal decisions made daily.
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Where am I at with my sobriety/recovery?
You're invited to a big festival, you know there is going to be drinking and the use of drugs. You ask yourself this question:
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What is reliable?
Following through on what you say you're going to do
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What is maybe?
A zumba instructor invites you to drive with them to another class an hour away.
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What is stranger danger?
You're walking your dog at night, and come upon a strange older man who asks you for help.
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What is youre action towards others?
How one person treats another
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What is my safety plan?
You go on a visit and end up in a bad situation. Before you left, you talked with your parents and therapist about the possibility of this happening. You ask yourself this question.
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What is safety?
freedom from the occurance or risk of loss, danger or injury
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What is maybe?
Someone in your class tells you that one of your peers has been talking bad about you and spreading rumors about you.
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100 points for discussion.
Come up with a scenario where you need to evaluate the environment in which you place yourself.
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What are listening skills?
The act of being able to hear others
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Am I going to be reliable?
Your mom asks you to babysit your younger sibling every Saturday morning for two hours. You ask yourself this question:
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What is integrity?
doing the right thing when no one is watching
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200 points for discussion.
Come up with your own scenario and discuss the reasons why you can or cannot trust that person or those people.
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What are supportive friends?
All of your friends are going out to drink and they invite you to come.
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What is time?
As this lengthens, you'll be inclined to trust a person more or less
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100 points for discussion.
Come up with a scenario where you have to reflect on the trust you have with yourself.
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What are boundaries?
Personal limits someone sets for themselves
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What is yes?
For Rec. Therapy Ashley decides we are going to do the trust fall. You are asked to participate by doing the fall off the log.
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What is awareness of your needs?
You are at home and make an effort to stay away from places which trigger negative memories.
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What is self-discovery?
The act of reflecting to understand yourself more
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