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True or False: It is not consent if the person is giving in to peer pressure or they are under the influence of alcohol or drugs.
True: Consent needs to be clear and enthusiastic and the person needs to have a clear mind in order to make the decision.
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Who is a student near you that you can go to for help?
Your RA's !!
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True or False: True or False: Sexual harassment is defined as behavior characterized by the making of unwelcome and inappropriate sexual remarks or physical advances
True
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You and your crush have been flirting and both start making jokes about sexting. Your crush asks if you would ever and you say no. The two of you continue to flirt and that's the end of it. Is this considered sexual harassment?
No because the conversation ended. If your crush were to try and pressure you into sending inappropriate messages or pictures then it becomes sexual harassment.
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What is an agreement between participants to engage in sexual activity with a verbal and enthusiastic expression?
What is consent?
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Who can assist you with consent issues that is not your RA but is always around to help in your residence hall?
What is the Area Coordinator?
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Can sexual harassment only happen verbally? If not list another way.
No, sexual harassment can be verbal or in the form of inappropriate text messages, pictures, or videos.
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Someone you're not attracted to asks you to the dance. You continually say no but they continue to ask and even start showing up wherever you happen to be. This individual hits on you in a creepy way and always try to hug you or touch you. Is this sexual harassment?
YES! This is a prime example of sexual harassment because the individual didn't take no as an answer and tried to pressure you into saying yes. This is a situation that should also be reported to a trusted adult.
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True or False: Can someone withdraw consent during sexual activity and if they have already said Yes?
True, everyone is entitled to rescind consent before or during sexual activities.
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What is an off-campus resource that is available 24/7?
What is Gryphon Place?
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Asking somebody to send you inappropriate pictures is an example of sexual harassment. Name another one.
making sexual jokes or comments, spreading sexual rumors, asking somebody to go out over and over even if the person continues to say no
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Jeff and Calin are dating. Calin is uncertain about whether they should have sex, but Jeff is persuasive and finally obtains Calin’s voluntary agreement. As they engage in sex, Calin says “wait – stop – that hurts.” Jeff nonetheless continues for several more minutes, restraining Calin. Afterwards, Calin is upset. Jeff apologizes, but says they were past the point of interruption. Did Calin give Jeff consent?
NO! Calin explicitly stated that they were revoking their consent, even during sexual intercourse. Additionally, Calin had to be coerced into agreeing to sex with Jeff.
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Is consent required by the law?
Yes! If you don't get consent from your partner it can be considered sexual assault and others may think you're trying to hurt your partner.
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How can you set up an appointment with the counseling center?
You can either send them an email or have a walk-in appointment.
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What is repetitive harassment?
Recurring incidents, especially after confronting the perpetrator.
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Megan and Kevin are friends who begin dancing and kissing at a party. They are both drunk, although not to the point of incapacitation. Together they decide to go to Kevin’s room. They undress each other and begin touching each other. In this situation, can consent be given?
Yes, they both decided together to go to Kevin's room. And while they were drunk, neither party was completely incapacitated while the other was tipsy.
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Give an example of how to ask for consent:
It varies !!!
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True or False: Are your RA's mandated reporters?
Yes, they are! There are confidential resources such as the Chaplin and the Title IX Director
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What is visual harassment?
Unwelcome exposure to sexually explicit images.
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Kylie and Mark are friends who begin dancing and kissing at a party. Neither have been drinking. Together they decide to go to Mark’s room. They undress each other and begin touching each other. Kylie moves as if to engage sex and looks up at Mark questioningly. Mark nods in agreement and then they proceed. How could Kylie and Mark improve their communication?
Both parties could improve their communication with Kylie verbally asking if she can proceed to touch Mark. Moreover, Mark can verbally say "Yes" to Kylie's advances if he is still consenting.
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