You're so toxic | Healthy Relationships | Healthy Couples | I'm in a relationship...with myself |
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Who is Edward Cullen
He is a way older man who gets involved with a 17 year old girl. He often avoids her and when together is super protective. He is emotionally unavailable and hates dogs.
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What is Accepting of our flaws
In a healthy relationship each partner is aware of the other persons flaws/area’s for growth and can accept them with out wanting the other person to change.
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Who are Beth and Randell from This is Us.
Have a strong backbone despite sometimes having conflict and disagreement. He is triggered by crock pots and she has good boundaries with her in-laws
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What is knowing who I am
Having a good sense of Self, or personal identify, likes and dislikes ensure that we can be our authentic selves in the relationship
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Who is Anastasia Steele.
I have fallen head over heels with this really wealthy guy who wants me to engage in sexual behaviors that i'm not really comfortable with but i give in to please him.
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What is being interdependent
We are able to meet needs and respond to each other with out losing our core sense of self or sacrificing our own needs and wants for the other person
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Who are Jim and Pam from The Office
Have a funny and caring relationship based on mutual respect for each other, despite meeting at work. Although they are parted when he takes a new job, they make each other a priority.
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What is boundary setting
Being able to say no or set limits
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Who are Kelly and Ryan
These 2 are engaged in an interoffice romance. She faked a pregancy and he proposed only after he knew that she had moved and then changed his mind.
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What is setting and respecting boundaries
Able to say and hear no in healthy manners, doesn’t push, manipulate, gaslight or otherwise try to circumvent your boundaries
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Who are Derrick and Meredith from Greys Anatomy
What started as a one night stand ended up becoming a healthy and stable romance. They supported each through a shooting, a plane crash, a ferry boat crash....the list goes on
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What is internal validation
When we don't relay on other person to make us feel heard, loved or wanted.
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Who are Mr. Big and Carrie Bradshaw
We can find her chasing after an emotionally unavaliable man while wearing designer shoes. He never really commits, stringing her along. He even left her at the alter.
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What is repairing and reconnecting
After fighting you are not shunned, punished, or shut out
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Who are Ben and Leslie from Parks and Rec?
Even though they are both really weird and want to work in a Park they bring out the best in each other.
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What is a sense of self worth
Believing that I matter and have value
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Who are Allie and Noah
during their relationship, they often have arguments that turn violent followed by enthusiastic make-ups that are depicted as a result of how crazy they are for each other, rather than toxic behaviour.
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What is space for vulnerability
Both you and your partner can be vulnerable with other other with out judgment and discomfort
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Who are Chidi and Elenor from The Good Place
They know each others good and bad qualities and accept them without wanting them to change. They use humor and affection to keep their bond strong, regardless off whatever Place they are in.
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What is self compassion
treating myself the way I would treat others, being kind to myself and non judgmental
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