| Fair Fighting/Arguing | How your behavior affects others | Being Assertive | Kindness | Silly vs Serious |
|---|---|---|---|---|
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using nice words, keeping hands and feet to self, listening to others while they are speaking, using normal conversation tone
What is fair fighting/arguing ?
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helping others, sharing, listening, respecting others
What is positive behavior?
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assertive: sticking up for your rights or rights of others
aggressive: taking others rights away, using harsh or mean words
Define the difference between assertive and aggressive
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respect, doing an act without expecting something in return, love, sympathy, friendly
What is kindness?
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playful, laughter, smile, moving around
What does it mean to be silly?
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Name calling, invading someone's personal space, interrupts others, use of hands and feet
What is unfair fighting/arguing ?
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stealing, bullying, lying, distracting others
What is negative behavior?
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speaking up, standing up for yourself or others, using a firm clear voice, being honest and fair, respecting others opinions
What are some examples of being assertive ?
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No, kind acts can be either big or small. It is the thought that counts
Does a kind act need to always be something big?
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quiet, polite words, following the rules, less moving
What does it mean to be serious ?
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Nobody gets hurt, everyone can express their opinions
Why do we have rules for fair fighting/arguing ?
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Positive behavior
Positive or Negative:
George returns a book that Gio lost |
using physical contact, rude language, being bossy, hurting others feelings, people will avoid you
What are some examples of being too aggressive?
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happy, proud, warm, special, positive, encouraging, helpful
How does kindness make you feel ?
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playground, parties, amusement park, summer vacation, winter break, playing outside with friends
When should we be silly ?
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Don't call others names, stand or sit arm's length away, don't threaten others, speak calmly
What are some rules for fair fighting/arguing ?
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Negative Behavior
Positive or Negative:
Hermione takes Harry’s lunch without asking permission |
Assertive
Assertive or Aggressive ?
You are on the playground and a student is teasing your friend. You walk over and calmly ask them to stop |
please, thank you, compliment, How are you,
What are some words or phrases that you can use to express kindness
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during a test, when you are in trouble, lost, meeting new people, at a nice restaurant
When should we be serious ?
|
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walking away, speak to the person when everyone is calm, compromise
What are alternatives to fair fighting/arguing?
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Negative Behavior
Positive or Negative:
Bob cheats on a test by looking at Susie’s test paper in class and gets them in trouble |
Aggressive
Assertive or Aggressive ?
A child grabbed your book and you reacted by pushing the child. |
holding the door for someone, giving a compliment, sharing, listening to others, smiling, volunteering to do a chore or help in classroom
Name some examples of kind acts
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people's facial expressions, body language, gestures, words, tone of voice
How can you tell is if you are being too silly or serious ?
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