begins with "I" and accurately reflects the speakers thoughts and feelings

the leader and group members work together to make plans and decisions

giving people positive input that helps them feel appreciated and supported

a result of the actual problem

Choose a mate that is like yourself (outer and inner qualities and roles)

a crush - intense emotional involvement beginning with a sudden, strong attraction

leader sets the group goals; plans and controls all activities

spoken words

a dilemma that must be solved

people select others who complete or compliment their personality needs (outgoing/shy)

inability to have children

allows group members to plan and complete their work on their own

without words - facial expressions, gestures, postures, body language

a result of an action -

Choose on what each family can offer the other (arranged marriage) or weighing the costs and rewards of the relationship.

a feeling among family members (and people) that they can rely on each other

you are able to look forward - to see how today affects tomorrow.

listener works to understand the speakers feelings and true meaning.

possibility of loss or injury

we have a mental picture of an ideal mate based on appearance, character, or other traits. They measure the person against this ideal.

when partners respond negatively, make judgements, or blame their partner

The ability to handle situations without upsetting the people involved.

responds to invite the speaker to continue to share feelings and ideas like "cool" or "that's great"

order things from first to last

acts as a "filter" utilizing all the other filters to "sift" through eligible partners.