Bullying 101 | Is It Bullying? | Handling Bullies | Types of Bullying | Miscellaneous |
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Someone who uses superior strength or influence to harm or intimidate someone else.
What is a bully?
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Yes, this is bullying, it happens repeatedly
John and Ted push Chris in the hallways every time they see him walk by and call him names on the playground. Is this bullying?
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Parent, school counselor, principal, teacher, friend, trusted adult
Name 3 people to go to if you are being bullied.
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Hitting, punching, kicking, pinching, tripping, spitting, etc.
Give an example of physical bullying.
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No. Any mean behavior is unacceptable.
Should you wait for mean behavior to become "bullying" before you stand up for yourself/someone else.
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Intentionally hurting someone repeatedly.
What does "bullying" mean?
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No - this is not bullying because it is not a repeated behavior from this person.
A classmate is in a bad mood one day and tells you to leave her alone because you are annoying her. Is this bullying?
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False. Use your Wheel of Choices.
True or false: You should tell a trusted adult every time anyone calls you a name or excludes you from something.
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Insults, name calling, threats, repeated teasing
Give an example of verbal bullying.
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Tell an adult anonymously, choose kinder friends, be courageous and tell Mandy she is being a bully
Mandy always calls Stacy a loser when she walks by at recess. Mandy's friend Laura knows this is wrong, but she doesn't want to say anything and risk losing Mandy as a friend. What advice would you give Laura?
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Physical, Verbal, Social, Cyber
What are the 4 types of bullying?
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Yes - the behavior is repeated
Every day a classmate calls you ugly. This classmate also spreads rumors about you to others. Is this bullying?
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Tell the bully to stop, tell an adult, get the victim away from the bully.
Name 2 ways a bystander can handle bullying?
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Gossip, spreading rumors, leaving others out
Give an example of social bullying.
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Tattling is when someone tells on someone else because they get satisfaction out of seeing another person get in trouble. Reporting is when you take a stand against someone who is harming you or someone else.
What is the difference between tattling and reporting?
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Someone who witnesses bullying occurring and ignores it, walks away, and/or does nothing to help.
What is a bystander?
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No, this is not bullying (no intimidation/harm)
A girl in your class gives you mean looks whenever you look at her and rolls her eyes at you sometimes. Is this bullying?
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Tell the closest adult immediately. This is a big problem, so skip the Wheel of Choices.
What should you do if someone is physically hurting you?
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Threatening/hurtful social media messages, texts, emails, hacking.
Give an example of cyber bullying.
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When you have a small problem (if someone is mean; if someone is rude; if someone is annoying, etc.)
When should you use the Wheel of Choices?
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The person who is being bullied (also known as a target).
What is a victim?
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No, Max is not intentionally harming anyone. He sounds competitive and has poor sportsmanship though. His friends should talk to him (give an i-message) or a teacher should be informed.
Max is aggressive at recess during basketball. He sometimes shoves other players and teases the other team when they lose. In class, he is friendly and apologizes for his behavior. Is this bullying?
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If no one stands up to the bully or helps the victim, the bullying won't ever stop.
Why are upstanders important?
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This is social bullying.
At least once a week, when Camden goes to sit down at lunch, the students sitting at the table block the empty seats and say they are saved. When he does sit down, they make faces and turn their backs to him. What kind of bullying is this?
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No. Ignoring it will allow it to continue.
Should you ignore bullying?
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